最近有很多热心网友都十分关心《我们都要好好的》源于生活，内容过于真实，容易引起极度舒适这个问题。还有一部分人想了解。对此，哈哈娱乐网小编「那年櫻花賞」收集了相关的教程，希望能给你带来帮助。

近日，由杨烁、刘涛、金晨、刘端端、张艺瀚主演的《我们都要好好的》正在芒果tv和北京卫视热播，社会的进步，人们的生活节奏加快，越来越多的矛盾和心理疾病出现在日常生活中。这部剧的播出，也就引起了人们的广泛关注，很多观众表示很符合现实生活，所以跟着小编一起来盘点一下有哪些现实情况吧。

(一)对最亲的人一直抱怨

    其实我们在生活中，把抱怨和坏脾气都留给了自己的最亲近的人。好像我们对于同学、朋友一样，和同学都客客气气的，却容易把自己的情绪带给自己的朋友。我们通常觉得父母是最不会离开自己的人，总是把自己的坏脾气留给父母等家人，面对他们，我们总是显得不耐烦，却对别人格外的宽容。在剧中，向前和寻找这一对夫妻，本来一开始都是因为爱才走在一起的，可是两人的价值观却越走越远。两个人都在独自的生活，每个人在需要对方的时候，两个人都不会出现在自己的身边，而且遇到问题之后，两个人都在对方身上找原因，却没有停下来看看自己，寻找自己身上的原因，都抱怨着对方，把坏脾气都留给了对方，这也是他们婚姻出现问题的原因。

(二)医生夸大病情

在剧中，向前带寻找去看心理医生，其实寻找的病情根本没有那么严重，可是在医生看来，她的病就很严重，说得很吓人。在专业的角度来讲，抑郁症的严重程度我想是应该告诉病人的亲属，可是心理医生在向前出去接电话的时候告诉了寻找一个人，他真的没有考虑过一个抑郁症病人知道了这些要怎么样才能承受得住呢？所以，这也正符合了现在生活中，因为利益的关系，多少人败坏了医德，夸大了病人的病情。

(三)人们都活在互相羡慕中

剧中，寻找的唯一朋友就是弯弯。感觉不出来他们有多亲密，只是在互相帮衬。两个人，都有各自的家庭，但是家庭生活却天壤之别。寻找羡慕弯弯的生活，即使他们没有很多的金钱、然后她老公还有点喜欢沾花惹草，但是有老公的陪伴，她生气了他会哄她，在她需要他的时候，他会出现；可是弯弯呢，其实内心也有苦楚，看到很多自己想买的东西买不了，也只能在夜市地摊上买，虽然老公对自己挺好，但是肚子里面却也装有花花肠子，她羡慕自己能够有一个像向前一样有钱的男人，可以给自己想要的生活，对自己还很专一。她们都在互相羡慕之中生活，像极了生活中的人们，暗地里的攀比，明眼中的羡慕。

(四)以自我为中心，三观不合永远走不到一起

其实每个人在遇到什么事情的时候，总是先考虑到自身利益，这是很正常的事儿。可是，一旦成为了以自我为中心的那种人就更加可怕了。剧中，向前自以为是，他以为自己挣钱都是为了家庭，他以为有了钱就可以生活得更好。所以，他总是以自我为中心，各种标榜自己，只是为了让寻找能够理解他，在各种方面上赞同支持他；相反，寻找也希望自己能够得到丈夫的陪伴，丈夫的理解，她反倒不希望拥有那么多钱，一个人守着冷清清的屋子～其实吧，这也真的反映了三观不合，终究走不到一起。向前和寻找的生活环境不同，形成了两种不同的性格，向前知道没钱没权势遭人嫌弃，而寻找从小含着金汤匙长大，所以对于权力，地位，金钱也就不太在乎，更多的是想要陪伴。

你们觉得这部剧符合现实吗？



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【英文介绍/For English】：

Recently, "We Are All Well" starring Yang Shuo, Liu Tao, Jin Chen, Liu Duanduan, and Zhang Yihan is currently being broadcast on Mango TV and Beijing Satellite TV. With the progress of society, people's pace of life is accelerating, and more and more contradictions and psychological Diseases appear in everyday life. The broadcast of this drama has also attracted widespread attention from people. Many viewers said that it fits with real life, so follow the editor to take stock of the real situation.

(1) Complaining to the dearest person all the time

In fact, in our lives, we leave our complaints and bad tempers to our closest people. It seems that we are polite to our classmates and friends, but we tend to bring our emotions to our friends. We usually think that our parents are the people who will never leave us. We always leave our bad temper to our parents and other family members. Facing them, we always appear impatient, but we are extra tolerant to others. In the play, Qianqian and Looking for a couple originally came together because of love, but their values ​​have drifted further and further apart. Two people are living alone, and when each needs the other, neither of them will appear by their side, and after encountering a problem, both of them look for the reason on each other, but they don't stop to look at themselves, Looking for the reasons in themselves, they both complained about each other and left their bad tempers to each other. This is also the reason for their marriage problems.

(2) The doctor exaggerates the condition

In the play, Xiang Qiang took Xun Xun to see a psychiatrist. In fact, Xun Xun's illness was not that serious at all, but in the eyes of the doctor, her illness was very serious, which was scary. From a professional point of view, I think the relatives of the patient should be told about the severity of depression, but when the psychologist went out to answer the phone, he told him to find someone. He really didn't think about a depressed patient. How can these be endured? Therefore, this is also in line with the current life, because of the relationship between interests, how many people have corrupted medical ethics and exaggerated the patient's condition.

(3) People live in mutual envy

In the play, the only friend he is looking for is Wanwan. I can't feel how close they are, they are just helping each other. Both of them have their own families, but their family lives are very different. Looking for the envious life, even though they don't have a lot of money, and her husband still likes to mess with women, but with her husband's company, he will coax her when she is angry, and he will show up when she needs him; But Wanwan, in fact, also has pain in her heart, seeing that many things she wants to buy can’t be bought, and she can only buy them at night market stalls. Although her husband treats her very well, she also has fancy intestines in her stomach. She envies herself Being able to have a man who is as rich as Qianqian can give him the life he wants, and he is very dedicated to himself. They all live in mutual envy, just like people in real life, secretly comparing each other, and envious in their eyes.

(4) Be self-centered, and the three perspectives will never come together

In fact, when everyone encounters something, they always consider their own interests first. This is a very normal thing. However, once you become a self-centered person, it is even more terrifying. In the play, Xiangqian is self-righteous. He thinks that he earns money for his family, and he thinks that with money, he can live better. Therefore, he is always self-centered, flaunting himself in various ways, just to let Xun Xing understand him and agree to support him in various aspects; I don't want to have so much money and stay alone in a deserted house~ In fact, this really reflects the disagreement of the three views, and we can't get together after all. Qiangqian and Xunxun live in different environments, forming two different personalities. Xiangqian knows that he has no money or power and is disliked by others, while Xunxun grew up with a golden spoon in his mouth, so he doesn't care much about power, status, and money. , more want to accompany.

Do you think this show is realistic?

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