《暗黑者3》：吴洋弑母，控制和爱是两码事？等了一周的《暗黑者3》终于更新了

【英文介绍/For English】：

After waiting for a week, "Dark Man 3" has finally been updated. Although the ratings of the third season have declined significantly compared with the previous two seasons, and word-of-mouth has also shown obvious polarization, but in terms of the content of the series, the "knowledge" passed on to the public point" is still valuable. In the updated series, there is a case of a boy who is both good in character and learning who kills his mother, and the parent's education for the child is nakedly displayed on the screen. The editor hopes that parents who already have children can take a look at this case and watch it after watching it. After that, maybe it will help you how to educate your children in the future.

Wu Yang is a very outstanding student. He has already obtained a Ph.D. and he still wants to study in the United States. He has been deeply involved in the field of biology and won a world-class award at a young age. He could have a bright future, but he was forced by his mother. became a murderer. Wu Yang was brought up by his mother. He knew how difficult it was for his mother to train him, so he respected his mother very much, but he never expected that her mother would control him more. What Wu Yang does every day, he has to follow his mother's arrangements, even when to take medicine, when to go to the bathroom, when to go out to have dinner with friends, and what time must he go home...he has to listen to his mother.

His mother has often watched him since middle school. She observed Wu Yang’s every move from the window at the back door of the classroom, and even as an adult, she quietly opened Wu Yang’s door to see if he was concentrating on his studies. In order to kill the bud of Wu Yang's puppy love in the cradle, she scolded the girl at the same table in front of Wu Yang, because Wu Yang had a good impression of this girl. When she learned that Wu Yang had been admitted to an American school, she resolutely quit her job and planned to go to the United States to continue taking care of her son's daily life. To outsiders, it is a miracle that Wu Yang can endure these behaviors of his mother. But in the end, this weak scholar who seemed to have no offensive power broke out, and the trigger was the girl who used to be at the same table.

Ten years later, Wu Yang and his female deskmate Qian Yu ran into each other on the street. At this time, Qian Yu already had a boyfriend in love and was pregnant for a month. The two are just ordinary friends now, but they joked together The scene was seen by Wu Yang's mother. In order to completely let Qian Yu leave Wu Yang's world, Wu Yang's mother talked to Qian Yu alone and wanted to delete Wu Yang's contact information from her mobile phone. It is dangerous to fall down the stairs. Wu Yang didn't expect his mother to be so vicious, and he became murderous in a fit of anger.

It is understandable for parents to want their children to succeed, because they do not want their children to repeat their fate, but this does not mean that parents can unconditionally control their children, even after he has grown up. There are no parents who do not love their children, but love and control are completely different things. Wu Yang's mother is more about control over Wu Yang. She hopes that her children will fully implement her own arrangements, and she has no qualifications or reasons to refuse. In Wu Yang's mother's heart: You were all born by me, I gave you life, and I am responsible for you, so I must take care of your eating, drinking and drinking.

This is not at all the idea that a mother who loves her children should have. It is said that maternal love is selfless. Wu Yang's mother has indeed endured a lot of hardships and suffered a lot in order to raise her children, but this does not mean that she can have no bottom line. The idea is imposed on the son. Wu Yang didn't have freedom even after he became an adult. This is what we call Ma Baonan, but Wu Yang is the passive one. In the end, Wu Yang was executed by Darker for killing his mother. He was actually happy, because he could finally have freedom. The saddest thing in Wu Yang's life was that he had no right to choose, and there was no freedom in his world. The only time To choose is to choose one's own way of death.

When the love of parents turns into a burden or oppression for their children, it is wrong. Some parents often talk about their devotion to their children, which will make children misunderstand. Is your devotion just for the sake of Do you get what you deserve from your child? Love is sacred, not a tool parents use to control their children. Wu Yang in the play has always longed for freedom and longed for one day to spread his wings and soar by himself. Unfortunately, his wings were broken when he was fledgling, and he became the work of his mother step by step. After reading this case, the editor hopes that all parents can reflect on themselves, whether what they have done to their children is love or control!

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