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由正午阳光出品，根据阿耐小说《回家》改编，简川訸执导，姚晨、倪大红、郭京飞、杨祐宁、高洋、高露等人主演的都市家庭剧《都挺好》正在热播。在这部剧中，石天冬（杨祐宁扮演）是苏明玉（姚晨扮演）的男朋友。明玉父亲离家出走，被石天冬看到，他自作主张为苏父安排了苏父喜欢的洗浴中心住下。看似有理，实则越界。可能剧粉会问，他怎么就越界了呢？谁遇到这事不得这么做吗？

看剧的剧粉都应该清楚，苏家可不是一般的家庭，并且苏明玉清清楚楚的告诉过石天冬，不要趟苏家这摊浑水。可他偏偏没有听进明玉的告诫，自己擅自做主管起了别家的私事。可能你也会说以他两个的关系，又不是外人，怎么成了别家的私事了？

其一，他们没有公开身份。其二，他们没有结婚。其三就是真的结婚了，妻子家的事情也要以妻子为主，也要听取她的意见，一般也要按她的想法办理。现在，石天冬没有听取她的意见自己擅自做主，这不是越界这是什么。苏父如果在沐浴中心啥事没有还好，可偏偏苏父昏倒在那里。要不是及时发现，后果不堪想象。

在《都挺好》中，苏父因晕倒，被120送进了医院，有惊无险。就算这样，苏明玉没到，苏明成就在那里不分青红皂白诉说苏明玉的错。等知道事情的苏明玉赶到时，苏明成除了挖苦就是埋怨，根本就不问缘由。苏家就是这样，不管什么事，遇到事，先找别人的错误，从来都不自我反省，大哥是这样，二哥也是这样。这还不是苏明玉做的，就算是她做的，父亲是个大活人，不可能全天24小时跟着他吧。苏父身体硬朗，可以自由行动，出现点问题，也是偶然，并且还没有发生什么大事。话又说回来了，这是苏父没事，如果苏父有个三长两短，那石天冬可吃不了兜着走了。

石天冬还有一个地方出现越界的行为，他到病房刚想解释，就被苏明玉叫了出去。在外面，他没有好好听明玉诉说，而是自作主张的诉说明玉的各种做法欠妥，最后明玉气急败坏地说：你以为你是谁啊！咱俩什么关系？其实在这里，石天冬并没有把个人的角色定位好。你和明玉充其量是男女朋友，即便是夫妻有些话也不能说，你要考虑到别人的感受，不能以你对问题的理解强加到别人身上，因为你根本不是她，理解问题和考虑问题的角度不同。

石天冬和苏明玉是相爱了。即便是两个相爱的人，生活环境不同，看问题的角度也不会相同。即便是石天冬说的对，做的也没错。对于苏明玉来说，从她看问题的角度也未必是对的。之所以两个人的感情亮起红灯，就是因为石天冬自以为做的没错的事情和说的没错的话，触动了明玉那颗敏感的神经。

林徽因说：爱的，不爱的，一直都在告别中。告别中，不越界，知进退，也许才有徘徊后的万里晴空。生活中往往会有一些人，自以为是的插手别人的事，没落到一点好，最后还落了一身埋怨。就是因为做的看似有理，实则越界。剧粉们现实中你们遇到过这样的问题吗？你们是怎么处理的？最后是得到感谢，还是落了埋怨？

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【英文介绍/For English】：

Produced by Noon Sunshine and adapted from Anai's novel "Going Home", directed by Jian Chuanhe, the urban family drama "Everything is Good" starring Yao Chen, Ni Dahong, Guo Jingfei, Yang Youning, Gao Yang, Gao Lu and others is currently on the air. In this play, Shi Tiandong (played by Yang Youning) is the boyfriend of Su Mingyu (played by Yao Chen). Mingyu's father ran away from home and was seen by Shi Tiandong. He arranged for Su's father to live in a bathing center that Su's favorite. It seems reasonable, but in fact it crosses the line. Maybe the drama fans will ask, how did he cross the line? Who should not do this when encountering this situation?

Fans of the drama should know that the Su family is not an ordinary family, and Su Mingyu clearly told Shi Tiandong not to go into the muddy water of the Su family. But he didn't listen to Mingyu's warning, and took charge of other family's private affairs by himself. Maybe you will also say that with the relationship between the two of them, and they are not outsiders, how could it become another family's private matter?

For one, they have not disclosed their identities. Second, they are not married. The third is that when you are really married, your wife’s family affairs should be centered on the wife, and her opinions should be listened to, and generally handled according to her ideas. Now, Shi Tiandong didn't listen to her opinion and made his own decisions. This is not crossing the line, this is what it is. It would be fine if Su's father was fine in the bathing center, but Su's father passed out there. Had it not been discovered in time, the consequences would have been unimaginable.

In "Everything is Fine", Su's father was sent to the hospital by 120 because he fainted. Even so, Su Mingyu didn't come, and Su Mingcheng was there to tell Su Mingyu's fault indiscriminately. When Su Mingyu, who knew about the matter, arrived, Su Mingcheng only satirized and complained, without asking the reason at all. The Su family is like this. No matter what happens, when encountering a problem, they will find other people's faults first, and never reflect on themselves. The eldest brother is like this, and the second brother is also like this. This is not done by Su Mingyu, even if she did it, his father is a living person, it is impossible to follow him 24 hours a day. Su's father is in good health and can move around freely. If something goes wrong, it is only accidental, and nothing major has happened yet. Then again, Father Su is fine, if something happens to Father Su, then Shi Tiandong won't be able to bear it and walk away.

There was another place where Shi Tiandong crossed the line. When he went to the ward to explain, he was called out by Su Mingyu. Outside, he didn't listen to Mingyu's story carefully, but told Mingyu's various practices on his own that were inappropriate, and finally Mingyu said angrily: Who do you think you are! What's the relationship between us? In fact, here, Shi Tiandong did not define his personal role well. You and Mingyu are boyfriend and girlfriend at best, even if you are a couple, you can’t say something, you have to consider other people’s feelings, and you can’t impose your understanding of the problem on others, because you are not her at all, understand the problem and think about the problem different angles.

Shi Tiandong and Su Mingyu are in love. Even if two people who love each other live in different environments, they will not see things from the same angle. Even if what Shi Tiandong said was right, what he did was right. For Su Mingyu, it may not be correct from her point of view. The reason why the relationship between the two of them turned red was because Shi Tiandong thought that he did the right things and said the right words, which touched Ming Yu's sensitive nerves.

<strong>Lin Huiyin said: Those who love, those who do not love, are always saying goodbye. In the farewell, do not cross the boundary, know how to advance and retreat, maybe there will be a clear sky after wandering.

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There are often some people in life who presumptuously intervene in other people's affairs, fail to make things better, and end up complaining all over. It is because what you do seems to be reasonable, but in fact it is beyond the bounds. Fans of the show, have you ever encountered such a problem in reality? How did you deal with it? In the end, did you get thanks, or did you complain?