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继《北京女子图鉴》之后，《上海女子图鉴》也登上了热播剧的排行榜。
这两部剧的剧情走向虽然大体相似，但是很明显，《上海女子图鉴》的女主罗海燕在精明程度上要逊色很多。


现在《上海女子图鉴》集数过半，罗海燕的感情生活可以用一团糟来形容。她总是被分手的那个。唯一一次她占了主动权的还是因为她被小三了。
罗海燕选择主动分手保全来自己最后的一丝尊严。但我想说的是，罗海燕其实是幸运的，她碰见的这个原配虽然很睿智，但为人并不泼辣阴险。如果她遇见一个像《恋爱先生》里面的原配。她的结局一定会是身败名裂。
有人说，最可恶的其实是那个出轨的渣男，他伤害了两个女人，最该得到报应的是这个不负责任的男人。可偏偏很多时候不得善终的却是受到了伤害的女人。

尤其是那个被小三的无辜女子，她曾经在心里幻想了无数次要嫁给心上人的场景，但现实里她的爱人早已经娶了别人，自己被爱人变成了别人口中那个千夫所指的第三者。
但同时，这些女人和这些渣男相识相恋的遭遇又是那么的类似。都是在某次机缘巧合里对一个体贴入微的绅士动了心。
 后来这个温润如玉的绅士帮你解决难题，为你提供帮助，无孔不入的对你的一切都细心打理，你感动极了，终于接受了这位绅士对你的求爱。


到最后你被渣男捧得越高，结果就是摔的最重。
也许你会觉得委屈，你觉得自己才是最可怜的那个，你恨不得对所有人大声咆哮，你只是被人欺骗了，你没有故意破坏别人的家庭，为什么还会有人对你指指点点？
甚至这些还会影响到你的正常生活，再恶劣一些的结果因为原配的不依不饶，就是你所在的公司得知了这一切，直接将你开除处理。
但是你是不是也该反思一下，是不是你太容易被诱惑了？难道你不明白一个成熟有魅力又温柔多金的男人至今没有爱人，就是为了等一个他口中特别的你出现，这种事情发生的概率大概相当于，你第一次花了2块钱买彩票就中了500万的大奖。 

值得相信吗？
可是你偏偏就相信了。
你缺乏成年人该有的判断力，在这个布满陷阱的社会里你轻而易举的就相信一个拙劣的谎言，你还没有好好了解对方就迫不及待的和对方在一起，你在这个破漏百出的谎言里拒绝了一切理智的思考，那你的结果必然是走向悲剧的。
况且，名誉这个东西是最难挽回的，大家对你的判断一旦定了性，身败名裂的你想要翻身简直比当初那个一穷二白的你还要困难。
成年人的世界从来没有容易二字，有些错误也没有让你改正的机会，你只是现实生活中一个平凡的小人物，你没有主角光环，没有那么多让人惊艳特别的感觉。
做人还是要脚踏实地的，毕竟很多捷径其实都隐藏着你看不见的陷阱。



 

【英文介绍/For English】：

After "Beijing Women's Guide", "Shanghai Women's Guide" also entered the list of hit dramas. Although the plots of the two dramas are generally similar, it is obvious that Luo Haiyan, the heroine of "Shanghai Women's Guide", is much less shrewd.

Now that "Shanghai Women's Illustrated Book" has more than half of its episodes, Luo Haiyan's love life can be described as a mess. She was always the one who got broken up. The only time she took the initiative was because she was mistressed. Luo Haiyan chose to take the initiative to break up to preserve her last trace of dignity. But what I want to say is that Luo Haiyan is actually lucky. Although the original partner she met is very wise, she is not aggressive and sinister. If she meets someone like the original partner in "Mr. Love". Her ending will definitely be ruined. Some people say that the most hateful thing is actually that scumbag who cheated. He hurt two women, and the one who deserves the most retribution is this irresponsible man. But most of the time it is the hurt woman who doesn't end well.

Especially the innocent woman who was mistressed, she had imagined countless times in her heart that she would marry her sweetheart, but in reality her lover had already married someone else, and she was turned into the number one person that others said she was referring to by her lover. three. But at the same time, the encounters between these women and these scumbags are so similar. It was all by a chance coincidence that I fell in love with a considerate gentleman. Later, this gentle and gentle gentleman helped you solve your problems, provided you with help, and took care of everything about you in every possible way. You were so moved that you finally accepted this gentleman's courtship for you.

In the end, the higher you are praised by the scumbag, the more you fall the hardest. Maybe you feel wronged, you feel that you are the most pitiful one, you can't wait to yell at everyone, you are just deceived, you didn't intentionally destroy other people's families, why do people point at you? Even these things will affect your normal life, and the worse result is that your company will fire you directly because of your ex-wife's intransigence. But should you also reflect on it, are you too easily tempted? Don’t you understand that a mature, attractive, gentle and rich man has no lover so far, just to wait for the special you in his mouth, the probability of this kind of thing happening is about the same as the first time you spent 2 yuan to buy a lottery ticket Just hit the 5 million jackpot. the

Is it trustworthy? But you just believe it. You lack the judgment that an adult should have. In this society full of traps, you can easily believe a clumsy lie. You can’t wait to be with the other party before you know the other party well. If you reject all rational thinking, then your result will inevitably lead to tragedy. Besides, reputation is the most difficult thing to recover. Once everyone's judgment on you is fixed, it will be even more difficult for you who are ruined and ruined than when you were poor and white. The world of adults has never been easy, and there is no chance for you to correct some mistakes. You are just an ordinary person in real life. You don't have the aura of the protagonist, and you don't have so many amazing and special feelings. You still have to be down-to-earth in life. After all, many shortcuts actually hide traps that you can't see.