本篇文章给大家谈谈《如果可以这样爱》白考儿：感情里需要空间，不是距离？最近似乎中了佟大为和刘诗诗的，以及对应的知识点，文章可能有点长，但是希望大家可以阅读完，增长自己的知识，最重要的是希望对各位有所帮助，可以解决了您的问题，不要忘了收藏本站喔。

最近似乎中了佟大为和刘诗诗的毒，随着他们二人新剧《如果可以这样爱》的热播，刘诗诗再次回到大众视野，没想到昔日的龙葵已不再，随之而来的是一个可以和泼妇决一高下的电台主播白考儿。剧集播出后，对刘诗诗演技的评价如风暴般来袭，称赞的呼声很高，没想到刘诗诗还藏着这样一面。剧中，白考儿失去了丈夫，突如其来的噩耗，让她感受到天塌下来的压迫感。丈夫和别的女人关系不清不楚，两人竟然还一同寻死，白考儿一直以为丈夫在出差，没想到他每天酗酒然后住在酒店中，他们二人结婚十年，白考儿竟然在丈夫死后才知道他患有严重的抑郁症……

所有的消息如同冰雹一样向她砸来，而她根本无处躲藏。白考儿和丈夫结婚十年，却像两个陌生人一般，白考儿对家里的情况一无所知，就连房产证放在哪里都不知道，当朋友问起家中的事情，她只有一句话：这些我都不管的。难以想象白考儿和丈夫结婚十年是怎样生活的，对丈夫的情况一无所知，不得不说，在这场悲剧中，其实白考儿也有责任。

的确，无论是已经结婚的感情，还是在热恋时期的感情，双方都要留给彼此一定的空间，不然这段感情只能在压抑的氛围中结束。每个人都需要有自己的空间和秘密，即便是有了另一半，这个也是要有的。有人说，两个人在一起，一定要有舒适的空间感，这样才能在相处时保持新鲜感，不会让感情变淡，最后分道扬镳。但是空间感不代表彼此间有距离，白考儿和丈夫的感情状态，让人疑惑，虽然他们没有争吵，相处也很少，甚至连关切的问候都几乎为零，他们默认为对方很好，默认对方深爱着自己。

白考儿如果能够多关心丈夫一些，多注意他在生活上的细节，就不至于连丈夫已经患病十年的事情都不知道。当然这也不是白考儿一个人的错，她的丈夫如果能够多与自己沟通，两人把彼此当成家人，而不是生活在一起的“租客”，也许他并不会采用这样的方式结束自己的人生。

所以说，当我们有了另一半，在给彼此足够空间的基础上，也要多沟通，要真正去关心对方的生活，并非只是生活在一起而已。伴侣才是一个人后半生中最亲密的人，因为风雨他们要一起面对，幸福要一起创造，家庭要一起经营，所以，请好好对待身边的那个她/他，多关心一下彼此，在生活中，除了工作，还有爱情和家庭。

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【英文介绍/For English】：

Recently, it seems to have been poisoned by Tong Dawei and Liu Shishi. With the hit of their new drama "If You Can Love Like This", Liu Shishi once again returned to the public eye. Unexpectedly, the old nightshade is no longer, and what follows is Bai Kaoer, a radio anchor who can compete with shrews. After the episode was broadcast, the evaluation of Liu Shishi's acting skills came like a storm, and the voice of praise was very high. I didn't expect Liu Shishi to hide such a side. In the play, Bai Kaoer lost her husband, and the sudden bad news made her feel the oppression of the sky falling. The relationship between the husband and other women is not clear, and the two even wanted to die together. Bai Kaoer always thought that her husband was on a business trip, but she didn't expect him to drink heavily every day and live in a hotel. The two of them were married for ten years. Husband only found out he was suffering from severe depression after his death...

All the news hit her like hail, and she had nowhere to hide. Bai Kaoer and her husband have been married for ten years, but they are like two strangers. Bai Kaoer doesn't know anything about the family situation, even where the real estate certificate is kept. When a friend asks about the family affairs, she only has In a word: I don't care about these. It's hard to imagine how Bai Kao'er and her husband lived after being married for ten years without knowing anything about her husband's situation. I have to say that Bai Kao'er was also responsible for this tragedy.

Indeed, whether it is a married relationship or a relationship during a passionate love period, both parties must leave each other with a certain amount of space, otherwise the relationship can only end in a depressive atmosphere. Everyone needs to have their own space and secrets, even if they have a significant other, this is also necessary. Some people say that when two people are together, they must have a comfortable sense of space, so as to maintain a sense of freshness when getting along, and not let the relationship fade away, and finally part ways. But the sense of space does not mean that there is a distance between each other. The emotional state of Bai Kaoer and her husband is confusing. Although they have no quarrels and rarely get along with each other, even the greetings of concern are almost zero. They think that each other is very good by default. By default, the other party loves himself deeply.

If Bai Kaoer could care more about her husband and pay more attention to the details of his life, she wouldn't even know that her husband has been ill for ten years. Of course, this is not the fault of Bai Kaoer alone. If her husband can communicate with himself more and treat each other as family members instead of "tenants" living together, maybe he will not end up in this way. own life.

Therefore, when we have a significant other, on the basis of giving each other enough space, we must also communicate more, and truly care about each other's life, not just living together. A partner is the closest person in the second half of a person's life, because they have to face the wind and rain together, create happiness together, and manage the family together, so please treat her/him around you well, care about each other more, and live together. In addition to work, there is also love and family.

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