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随着《青春斗》剧集的更新，五个女孩已经有了各自的发展，她们之间的友情，并非随着离开校园而减淡，即便不在同一个城市，也时刻都惦记着对方，从她们身上，我看到了钢铁姐妹情，谁说姐妹之间只能有塑料情谊。但是闺蜜之间的友情，是细腻且需要用心维护的，并非一味索取或者消耗。于慧在这五个女孩中，对友情付出是最少的。她一直想要依靠自己的努力奋斗改变命运，但这并不是她疏远闺蜜的理由，就像向真，她在创业阶段，无论姐妹中谁遇到困难，都会挺身而出，哪怕是融资也要照顾闺蜜的情绪，虽然她的感情用事不值得称赞，但可以看出向真将友情放在了第一位，一个重情义的女孩，成功是迟早的。

于慧恰好相反，这段友情，在她心中的位置远不及她的事业，却成为了她的消耗品。从一开始的剧情中，就很少看到于慧跟向真他们在一起。等到要毕业了，就回学校，还拉着向真一起创业，失败之后一走了之，留下向真一个人收拾烂摊子，还险些被同学“绑架”。真正的友情并不是召之即来挥之即去的，闺蜜也不是那个无底线为你收拾烂摊子的人。于慧每一次有困难都会去搜刮向真，还信誓旦旦表示身为姐们，肯定不会坑她，结果，重情义的向真不止一次被“欺骗”。

于慧拍电影没钱，便设下了“鸿门宴”，希望能从刚刚获得融资款的向真手中借一笔，于慧很清楚向真的性格，这笔钱，她如愿拿到了。紧接着林森就以合同诈骗的罪名被逮捕，于慧为了保出林森，又想到了向真她们几个，但是她们也并不能凑出四百万，于慧竟然说出：什么闺蜜，都是扯淡，这样的话。在于慧眼中，大概能够借给自己钱的人才称得上是闺蜜吧。当闺蜜遇到困难时，张口就是我出一千，就算是当时没有工作的向真也出了五千，由此就看得出闺蜜在于慧心中到底是怎样的角色和地位。

友情并不是用来无限消耗的，有人会说，那交朋友干嘛，多个朋友多条路，关键时刻就要挺身而出，但是首先交朋友，你要把对方当做朋友。于慧和向真她们相识不是一年，但她根本就没有将她们真正当做朋友，她想做的，不过是，要凭借自己的努力，超越她们其中每一个，自己才能从中享受到优越感，但向真她们从来都没有瞧不起她。

朋友不会嫌弃你穷，但会在意自己在你心中是怎样的存在，是可有可无，还是不常联系也会挂念？剧中于慧一有事就找向真，但向真她们遇到了难题，从来不会去找于慧，因为她们清楚想让于慧陪自己喝酒都是奢侈的。

朋友关系中，并不是只靠一方去维持，当然也不能只让一个人去付出，必须是相互的， 只有这样的友情才能长久。我们不要像于慧那样，肆无忌惮消耗这份来之不易的友情，毕竟在这个复杂的社会，能遇到可以交心的朋友，并不比找对象容易。在你寻找朋友帮助的时候，请先反思一下自己，是否尊重了那些朋友的存在……

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【英文介绍/For English】：

With the update of the "Youth Fight" series, the five girls have developed their own development. The friendship between them does not diminish after leaving the campus. Even if they are not in the same city, they always miss each other. In them, I saw steel sisterhood, who said that there can only be plastic friendship between sisters. But the friendship between girlfriends is delicate and needs careful maintenance, not just asking for or consuming. Among the five girls, Yu Hui paid the least for friendship. She has always wanted to rely on her own hard work to change her destiny, but this is not the reason for her to alienate her girlfriends. Just like Xiang Zhen, in the stage of starting a business, no matter who encounters difficulties among her sisters, she will come forward, even if it is financing. Taking care of her girlfriend's emotions, although her sentimentality is not commendable, it can be seen that Xiang Zhen puts friendship first. A girl who values ​​friendship will succeed sooner or later.

Yu Hui was just the opposite. This friendship, far less important in her heart than her career, had become her consumable. From the beginning of the plot, Yu Hui and Xiang Zhen were rarely seen together. When he was about to graduate, he went back to school and dragged Xiang Zhen to start a business together. After failing, he left, leaving Xiang Zhen alone to clean up the mess, and was almost "kidnapped" by his classmates. True friendship is not something that comes and goes when you are called, and your best friend is not the one who has no bottom line to clean up the mess for you. Every time Yu Hui had difficulties, she would go to search for Xiang Zhen, and she also vowed that as a sister, she would definitely not cheat her. As a result, Xiang Zhen, who valued love and affection, was "deceived" more than once.

Yu Hui had no money to make a movie, so she set up a "Hongmen Banquet", hoping to borrow a sum from Xiang Zhen who had just obtained financing. Yu Hui knew Xiang Zhen's character very well, and she got the money as she wished. Immediately afterwards, Lin Sen was arrested on the charge of contract fraud. In order to keep Lin Sen out, Yu Hui thought of Xiang Zhen and the others, but they couldn't come up with four million. Yu Hui actually said: What girlfriends, It's all bullshit, like that. In Yu Hui's eyes, probably only those who can lend him money can be called girlfriends. When my girlfriend encountered difficulties, she opened her mouth and asked me to give one thousand, even Xiang Zhen, who had no job at the time, gave five thousand. From this, we can see what kind of role and status my best friend Yu Hui has.

Friendship is not for unlimited consumption. Some people will say, why make friends? There are many friends and many paths. You have to stand up at the critical moment, but first make friends, you have to treat each other as friends. Yu Hui and Xiang Zhen haven't known each other for a year, but she doesn't really regard them as friends at all. What she wants to do is to rely on her own efforts to surpass each of them, so that she can enjoy a sense of superiority from it. But Xiang Zhen and the others never looked down on her.

Friends will not despise you for being poor, but they will care about what kind of existence you have in your heart, is it dispensable, or will you miss it if you don’t communicate often? In the play, Yu Hui goes to Xiang Zhen whenever she has something to do, but Xiang Zhen and the others encounter difficulties and never go to Yu Hui, because they know that it is a luxury for Yu Hui to drink with them.

In the friendship relationship, it is not only maintained by one party, of course, it cannot only be made by one person, it must be mutual, and only such a friendship can last forever. We should not waste this hard-earned friendship like Yu Hui. After all, in this complex society, meeting friends who can make friends is not easier than finding someone. When you are looking for friends to help, please reflect on yourself first, whether you respect the existence of those friends...

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