据哈哈娱乐网网站「夕阳一抹红颜」消息，近日，《青春斗》丁兰：每一个努力奋斗的女孩都值得被好好对待？《青春斗》是一部让人上瘾的引发热议，同样引起许多争议，对此众网友各抒己见。但到底是怎么回事呢？哈哈娱乐网为您解答。

《青春斗》是一部让人上瘾的剧，看来赵宝刚导演又成功拍摄了每个人的青春，无论是青春里美好的回忆还是奋斗的艰辛，亦或是叛逆的经历，似乎是大部分人青春的复制版，从其中我们感觉到了真实，这正是赵宝刚导演的风格，也是这部剧获得一票好口碑的原因。回想起青春时光，我们的脑海中会浮现各种各样的记忆，当然不是只有美好的，也有那些曾经我们为了奋斗而与父母“抗争”的日子。

随着剧集的更新，我们开始看到这几个为了离开学校进入社会的女孩为了生活、理想努力的样子，本已经考上德国慕尼黑大学，将要和男友同去德国的学霸丁兰，却遭到母亲的极力反对。丁兰的母亲将女儿的录取通知书以及护照全部烧毁，为了阻止其去北京，还毁坏了丁兰的身份证以及银行卡……还成为间接导致丁兰和高原分手的“罪魁祸首”。

看到这，很多观众都评论，丁兰简直就是樊胜美和苏明玉结合的青春版。母亲认为丁兰学业有成，应该为家里分担经济压力，作为独生女，丁兰理应留在父母身边，为他们养老。在我们看来，这样的父母，只是将孩子当成了他们的养老工具，丝毫不考虑孩子的感受。

本以为丁兰会向母亲妥协，没想到她暂时的妥协是为了给离开创造时间和机会。最后丁兰借助现男友曾海铭的帮助，成功离开家乡回到北京继续奋斗。就这件事而言，小编还是站队丁兰的，丁兰的行为并非不孝，她表示自己想给父母更好的生活，想等到自己事业有成后将父母接到大城市，去看看他们不曾看到过的外面的世界。丁兰的想法没错，她不甘平庸，一直努力就是为了改变现状。无奈，她的一切努力在父母的眼中，却是不孝的行为。

也许丁兰的遭遇中也有我们的影子，为了理想，为了改变家庭生活的现状，为了能够给父母更好的生活与更好的养老环境，作为女孩，她选择到陌生的城市甚至遥远的国家去完成自己的理想。丁兰没有错，她的父母也没有错，只不过是两代人观念的差别导致他们之间产生了代沟与隔阂。丁兰放弃了家中“养尊处优”式的生活与工作，到北京打拼，这意味着她会吃更多的苦，承受更大的压力，还有更多的未知，但她坚定，从未放弃过。丁兰的努力，不只是为了自己，更是为了父母。

在此，小编想说，在现实生活中还有很多像丁兰这样的女孩，她们的努力并不是自私得为了自己，希望这些为了理想和父母在外奋斗的女孩，可以被这个世界温柔以待，也希望这些女孩的父母们可以真正了解她们，并理解她们的内心。我们没有王思聪那样的家庭，但我们从不缺少努力拼搏的斗志。最后，希望这些努力奋斗的女孩，都可以成功，可以被所有人理解。当你身边有这样的女孩，也请好好对待她们，她们来自的平凡的家庭，但通过自己的努力，我相信她们一定会有不平凡的人生。对于丁兰的“不告而别”，你们怎么看？

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【英文介绍/For English】：

"Youth Fight" is an addictive drama. It seems that Director Zhao Baogang has successfully captured everyone's youth. Whether it is the beautiful memories in youth, the hardships of struggle, or the experience of rebellion, it seems that most people The copy version of youth, from which we feel the truth, this is exactly the style of director Zhao Baogang, and it is also the reason why this drama has won a good reputation. Looking back on our youth, all kinds of memories will appear in our minds, of course not only the good ones, but also those days when we "struggled" with our parents in order to struggle.

With the update of the series, we began to see how these girls who left school and entered the society worked hard for their lives and ideals. Ding Lan, a top student who had already been admitted to the University of Munich in Germany and was about to go to Germany with her boyfriend, but He was strongly opposed by his mother. Ding Lan's mother burned all her daughter's admission notice and passport. In order to prevent her from going to Beijing, she also destroyed Ding Lan's ID card and bank card...and became the "culprit" that indirectly caused Ding Lan and Gao Yuan to break up.

Seeing this, many viewers commented that Ding Lan is simply the youthful version of Fan Shengmei and Su Mingyu combined. The mother believes that Ding Lan is successful in her studies and should share the financial pressure for the family. As an only child, Ding Lan should stay with her parents and take care of them. In our opinion, such parents just regard their children as their pension tools, without considering their children's feelings at all.

I thought Ding Lan would compromise with her mother, but she didn't expect that her temporary compromise was to create time and opportunities for her to leave. In the end, with the help of her current boyfriend Zeng Haiming, Ding Lan successfully left her hometown and returned to Beijing to continue her struggle. As far as this matter is concerned, the editor is still on Ding Lan's side. Ding Lan's behavior is not unfilial. She said that she wants to give her parents a better life, and she wants to take her parents to a big city after her career is successful. Go and see The outside world they have never seen. Ding Lan's thinking is correct, she is unwilling to be mediocre, and she has been working hard to change the status quo. Helpless, all her efforts were unfilial in the eyes of her parents.

Perhaps Ding Lan’s experience also has our shadows. For the sake of ideals, to change the current situation of family life, and to provide her parents with a better life and a better retirement environment, as a girl, she chose to go to a strange city or even a distant country. Complete your ideal. Ding Lan was not wrong, nor were her parents, it was just the difference in concept between the two generations that caused a generation gap and estrangement between them. Ding Lan gave up the "pampered" life and work at home and went to Beijing to work hard, which meant that she would suffer more hardships, bear greater pressure, and have more unknowns, but she was determined and never gave up . Ding Lan's efforts are not only for herself, but also for her parents.

Here, the editor would like to say that there are many girls like Ding Lan in real life. Their efforts are not selfish for themselves. I hope that these girls who are fighting for their ideals and their parents can be treated with tenderness by the world. , I also hope that the parents of these girls can really understand them and understand their hearts. We don't have a family like Wang Sicong's, but we never lack the fighting spirit to work hard. Finally, I hope that these hard-working girls can succeed and be understood by everyone. When you have such girls by your side, please treat them well. They come from ordinary families, but through their own efforts, I believe they will have extraordinary lives. What do you think of Ding Lan's "Leave Without Saying Goodbye"?

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