本篇文章给大家谈谈《都挺好》女性在婚姻中绝不能一忍再忍？《都挺好》这部剧从开播至今一直都在观众热议，以及对应的知识点，文章可能有点长，但是希望大家可以阅读完，增长自己的知识，最重要的是希望对各位有所帮助，可以解决了您的问题，不要忘了收藏本站喔。

《都挺好》这部剧从开播至今一直都在观众热议的风口上，掀起了一波朋友圈对原生家庭讨论的热潮，也有一大波人开始庆幸自己没有遇上苏大强那样的作爹，开始珍惜其自己现在拥有的生活，从这一点上来看，这部剧赢了。这部剧也有关于女性如何彻底独立，把控自己的生活和未来。小编在这部剧完结之前，想说一下在婚姻中关于忍让的事情，尤其是女性在婚姻中都绝不能一忍再忍。

苏家的两个儿媳，我很喜欢，一个是她们的做事的态度，另一个就是她们骨子里的那种追求独立自主的劲头。而且他们二人还有一个共同点，那就是在婚姻中并不会一味的妥协，很“不能忍”。

二嫂朱丽明明知道苏明成是一个妈宝男，但是他已经啃老那么多年，一时半会肯定改不了，所以她平时会教育苏明成，希望他不要再继续啃老。但是当苏明成屡教不改，并且还对她动了手，朱丽便决定不再包容他，果断提出了离婚。我猜想不少网友已经在屏幕前大呼痛快了吧，小编也为朱丽的做法拍手叫好。

还有远在美国的大嫂吴非，她是一个有能力的女性，在丈夫苏明哲失去工作的日子，仅靠一个人支撑着家庭的所有花销，她应该是很多男性心中那种贤妻良母的理想型。无奈的是这样优秀的女人遇上了一个愚孝的丈夫苏明哲，丈夫只关心自己的父亲，无视妻子的辛苦付出。吴非实在无法忍受苏明哲这样的做法，自己辛辛苦苦远在美国一个人带孩子，还要工作，而他没有工作却一直想要给自己的父亲更好的生活，对自己无动于衷，于是吴非不假思索就提出了离婚。

在本需要两个人用心经营的婚姻中，一旦出现问题，大部分女性的第一选择都是包容和忍让一旦发现仅凭一己之力无法挽回局面时，便毅然决然选择离婚。结果也是显而易见的，苏明哲和苏明成两兄弟都是在妻子提出离婚后，才发现了自己的错误，慢慢学着改变。在离婚率很高的当今社会，小编并不是想鼓励大家在遇到问题后就选择离婚，毕竟组建一个家庭很不容易，我想表达的是，女人在婚姻中千万不要隐忍，一忍再忍的后果，只能是让自己遍体鳞伤。

《我不是潘金莲》中，有一句这样的台词：
路人：维系五十年婚姻的秘诀是什么？
院长：一个字，忍。

院长夫人：错了，是一忍再忍。

院长夫人的四个字，说出了当下女性在婚姻中的常态。无论老公婚后变成了什么样子，好吃懒做，脾气火爆，甚至出轨，很多女性都期待着他们有一天能够改变，我们给对方机会和时间的时候，无疑不是在折磨着自己，最后我们的隐忍变成了他们变本加厉的资本。

婚姻，本该是一场两个人同甘共苦的携手相伴，而并非一个人努力隐忍的残酷修行，一场只靠一方忍耐才能维系的婚姻，根本走不到最后。在此，我希望，那些在婚姻中的女性，千万不要委屈自己。而婚姻中的男性，面对妻子的包容，一定要学会感恩，然后慢慢改正自己的不足，只有这样两个人的婚姻才能够走向幸福。

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【英文介绍/For English】：

The show "Everything is Good" has been the hot topic of discussion among audiences since it was broadcast, and it has set off a wave of discussions about native families in the circle of friends, and a large number of people have begun to rejoice that they did not meet a father like Su Daqiang. Start to cherish the life he has now. From this point of view, the show has won. This show is also about how women can be completely independent and take control of their lives and futures. Before the end of this drama, the editor wants to talk about tolerance in marriage, especially women in marriage must not tolerate it any longer.

I like the two daughters-in-law of the Su family very much. One is their attitude in doing things, and the other is their inner drive to pursue independence. And the two of them have one thing in common, that is, they will not blindly compromise in marriage, which is very "unbearable".

The second sister-in-law, Zhu Li, clearly knew that Su Mingcheng was a baby boy, but he had been gnawing on the old for so many years, and he would definitely not be able to change it for a while, so she usually educated Su Mingcheng, hoping that he would stop gnawing on the old. But when Su Mingcheng refused to change after repeated admonitions, and even touched her, Zhu Li decided not to tolerate him anymore, and resolutely filed for divorce. I guess many netizens have already shouted happily in front of the screen, and the editor also applauded Zhu Li's approach.

There is also my sister-in-law Wu Fei who is far away in the United States. She is a capable woman. When her husband Su Mingzhe lost his job, she supported all the expenses of the family by herself. She should be the kind of good wife and mother in the hearts of many men. ideal type. It is helpless that such an excellent woman meets a foolish and filial husband Su Mingzhe, who only cares about his father and ignores his wife's hard work. Wu Fei really couldn't bear Su Mingzhe's behavior. He worked so hard to raise the children alone in the United States and had to work, but he didn't have a job but always wanted to give his father a better life, and he was indifferent to himself, so Wu Fei Without thinking about it, he filed for divorce.

In a marriage that requires the hard work of two people, once a problem arises, the first choice of most women is tolerance and tolerance. Once they find that they cannot restore the situation by themselves, they resolutely choose divorce. The result is also obvious. Both brothers Su Mingzhe and Su Mingcheng discovered their mistakes after their wives filed for divorce, and they slowly learned to change. In today's society where the divorce rate is very high, the editor does not want to encourage everyone to choose divorce after encountering problems. After all, it is not easy to start a family. What I want to express is that women must not be tolerant in marriage. The consequence of enduring it any longer would be to bruise myself all over.

In "I'm Not Pan Jinlian", there is a line like this: Passerby: What is the secret to maintaining a fifty-year marriage? Dean: One word, forbearance.

The dean's wife: Wrong, it is patience.

The four words of the dean's wife express the normal state of women in marriage at present. No matter what the husband has become after marriage, whether he is lazy, hot-tempered, or even cheating, many women expect them to change one day. When we give each other opportunities and time, we are undoubtedly not torturing ourselves. In the end, our forbearance changes It has become the capital for them to intensify.

Marriage is supposed to be a partnership between two people who share weal and woe, not a cruel practice that one person works hard to endure. A marriage that can only be maintained by the patience of one party will never come to an end. Here, I hope that those women in marriage will never wrong themselves. And men in marriage must learn to be grateful for the tolerance of their wives, and then slowly correct their own shortcomings. Only in this way can the marriage of two people move towards happiness.

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