据哈哈娱乐网网站「冰恋绝舞」消息，近日，《都挺好》“苏明玉”们：醒醒吧，那个家不值得你们留恋引发热议，同样引起许多争议，对此众网友各抒己见。但到底是怎么回事呢？哈哈娱乐网为您解答。

《都挺好》已经热播近半，关于对苏家三渣男的声讨的呼声越来越高，对明玉的同情声越来越多。更多相同经历的网友对父母控诉，小声的抗议，默默的忍受……都知道，这部剧会以大团圆的形式结局。可我更愿意看到现实生活中的“苏明玉”，“樊胜美”能走出原生家庭的阴影，活出自我。不要再留恋过去，不要再祈求那微不足道的爱。

即使在最忙的高三也要帮回家玩的二哥洗衣服，即使为了考清华也不能花那一千的补习费，即使有能力上清华也只能上免费师范，即使有钱也不会供你读书……而这一切只因为你是女的，你将来要嫁人，父母不指望你养老。很打脸，苏明玉利用最差的资源，却活得最出色。最终母亲去世后的一切事宜都是她在打点。可即使这样，她仍然得不到任何感情上的回报。明玉把自己包装成一个刺猬，张嘴闭嘴都是“我从来没把自己当苏家人”，她不敢卸下伪装，害怕自己的刺不能保护好自己。对苏家她又付出了多少。母亲去世，看似冷酷无情，却默默的掏了所有的费用，在车上无声的哭泣，在事后前去祭拜。

大哥丢了工作，自己被骂后又求人帮他找工作，还为顾及大哥面子，默不作声。大哥回国，帮忙安排好一切事情，对大哥充满敬重，对嫂子也是亲如姐妹，对小咪更是疼爱有加。可是呢，在大哥眼中，她只是一个冷漠不知感恩的人，在大嫂眼中不是一个省油的灯。真的替她不值，所有的人都可以骂她，唯独大哥大嫂不应该，她对他们是那样的竭尽全力，推心置腹。

被二哥打伤，虽然嘴硬要让他绳之以法，还是不忍让他坐牢，毁了他一生，放过了他。可是他们又是怎么对待苏明玉的，事后没一个人去关心她的伤情，每一个人去照看一下，反而都来指责她不能太过分了，要顾及兄妹感情，去他妈的手足情深，有几个哥哥能把妹妹打到骨裂，还不知悔改。看苏明玉当时惊恐的表情，真的让人心疼。那种由内到外的恐惧，那种不可名状的痛苦，似乎要把她吞噬掉。

而她嫡亲的二嫂只为救自己的老公出狱，父亲只是想着他的新房子，被逼无奈，才去看望那个被嫌弃的女儿，一开口却将苏明玉的感动撕的粉碎。其他人只为保住自己的颜面，没一个人愿意为她发声，所有的一切似乎都是她罪有应得。她不甘心，她寄希望于自己是领养的，这样似乎就能对父母的所作所为找到借口。可偏偏事与愿违，她还就是父母亲生的，可她却在那个家找不到任何归属感。

那种痛苦是那样的刻骨铭心，多少被父母偏待的孩子有过相同的幻想，相同的痛。苏明玉还算幸运，她遇到了师傅，活成了别人口中的成功人士。然而现实中大多数女生没能活成“苏明玉”而是活成了“樊胜美”。即使自己只是勉强过活，却要被搜刮养自己的哥哥弟弟。可她们还是念着那似乎存在的亲情，任父母搜刮而不知反抗。

醒醒吧，有时候不是你付出了，他们就会感激，与其为了他们施舍的那一点爱，顾及毫无价值的骨肉亲情，迷失自我。不如做自己，只为自己而活，活出自己的精彩。“灰姑娘，不要怕，南瓜马车已奔赴战场。”

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【英文介绍/For English】：

"Everything is Good" has been on the air for nearly half of the time, and there are more and more voices about condemning the three scumbags of the Su family, and more and more voices of sympathy for Mingyu. More netizens with the same experience complained to their parents, protested softly, and endured silently... Everyone knows that this drama will end with a happy ending. But I prefer to see "Su Mingyu" and "Fan Shengmei" in real life who can get out of the shadow of their original family and live out their own. Don't miss the past any more, don't beg for that insignificant love.

Even in the busiest third year of high school, I have to help my second brother wash clothes at home. Even if I want to take Tsinghua, I can’t spend the 1,000 tuition fee. For you to study... and all this is just because you are a woman, you will get married in the future, and your parents don't expect you to take care of yourself. It's a slap in the face, Su Mingyu used the worst resources, but lived the best life. In the end, she took care of everything after her mother died. But even so, she still didn't get any emotional return. Mingyu packaged herself as a hedgehog, opening her mouth and closing her mouth, saying "I never regarded myself as the Su family", she dared not take off the disguise, fearing that her thorns would not be able to protect herself well. How much did she pay for the Su family? Mother died, seemingly ruthless, but silently paid all the expenses, wept silently in the car, and went to worship afterwards.

The eldest brother lost his job, and after being scolded, he asked someone to help him find a job, and kept silent in order to take care of the eldest brother's face. When the elder brother returned to China, he helped arrange everything. He was full of respect for the elder brother, as close as a sister to his sister-in-law, and even more loving to Xiao Mi. However, in the eyes of the eldest brother, she is just an indifferent and ungrateful person, and in the eyes of the sister-in-law, she is not a fuel-efficient lamp. It's really not worth it for her. Everyone can scold her, but the eldest brother and sister-in-law shouldn't. She is doing her best to them and confiding her heart.

Injured by the second brother, although he insisted on bringing him to justice, he still couldn't bear to let him go to jail, ruined his life, and let him go. But how did they treat Su Mingyu? Afterwards, no one cared about her injury. Everyone went to take care of her. Instead, they all came to accuse her of not going too far, taking into account the relationship between brothers and sisters, and fucking brotherhood. There are a few older brothers who can beat their younger sisters until their bones are broken, but they still don't know how to repent. Seeing Su Mingyu's terrified expression at that time really made people feel distressed. That kind of fear from the inside out, that kind of indescribable pain, seemed to swallow her up.

And her second sister-in-law only wanted to save her husband from prison, and her father was only thinking about his new house, so he was forced to visit that abandoned daughter, but she tore Su Mingyu's emotion to pieces when she opened her mouth. Others are only trying to save their face, and no one is willing to speak up for her. It seems that she deserves everything. She was not reconciled, and she hoped that she was adopted, so she seemed to be able to find an excuse for what her parents did. But things backfired, she was born to her parents, but she couldn't find any sense of belonging in that family.

That kind of pain is so unforgettable, how many children who are favored by their parents have had the same fantasy and the same pain. Su Mingyu was lucky. She met her master and became a successful person in others' mouths. However, in reality, most girls failed to live as "Su Mingyu" but "Fan Shengmei". Even if he is barely making ends meet, he will be plundered to support his older brothers and younger brothers. But they still think about the family affection that seems to exist, and let their parents plunder without knowing how to resist.

Wake up, sometimes it is not you who give, they will be grateful, instead of caring about the worthless family relationship for the little love they give, and losing themselves. It's better to be yourself, live only for yourself, and live out your own splendor. "Cinderella, don't be afraid, the pumpkin carriage is on its way to the battlefield."

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