《初婚》苦难终将过去，我们会遇见幸福？从如果爱剧中繁华的大都市

【英文介绍/For English】：

From the bustling metropolis in If You Love the Drama to the countryside in the 1980s in First Marriage, you really have the illusion of traveling through time and space;

01 I am used to the bright windows and gorgeous clothes in "If You Love", and then to the dusty countryside shown in "First Marriage", with simple clothes and loud voice when speaking, will you not get used to it; No, for me who was born in 80 years, I feel very cordial; the local accents of those scumbags in the play are simply the most pleasant words in memory; many characters in the play are from the village where I grew up. Can find similar people; "First Marriage" vividly reproduces the miniature of the countryside in the 1980s; the mother-in-law Jia Guixian in the play, her husband died young, and she lived alone with her three sons. The hardships can be imagined;

The aggressiveness and unreasonableness in Jia Guixian's play is actually a kind of self-protection for people who have been living at the bottom of the countryside; the poor family is struggling, and as a mother of three sons, she has to make decisions about everything, and there is no husband to support her. Reliance, after a long time, it will naturally become a domineering character; being domineering and unreasonable sometimes means that this person is not easy to bully, other than that, in her opinion, there is no other way to gain a foothold in the village ; Jia Guixian is actually very pitiful, fate is so unfair to her, she was a widow when she was young, and finally lost her eldest son when the child grew up, and the white-haired man gave the black-haired man;

02 When the second grandfather passed away, the uncle was 8 years old, the younger uncle was 6 years old, and the aunt was 4 years old. Since then, the second grandmother has been pulling the three children by herself, and they depend on each other; In the era when it was difficult to have enough food, there were several children to support, and there were very few who could help the second grandma's family. They had more than enough energy but not enough energy; the grandfather and the second grandpa's house were opposite each other. Send some to Second Grandma’s house, Grandma will wrap the freshly baked steamed buns in a clean cloth while it’s still hot, and tell me to carry them, be careful of scalding them, and come back quickly after sending them off; every time I promise to be good, but every time When I go to the second grandma's house, I will be pulled down to eat, and I eat with my aunt and uncle at the same table, and I think everything is delicious! In fact, at that time, the steamed buns at my second grandma’s house were half cornmeal and half black flour steamed buns. At that time, the two uncles were seventeen or eighteen years old, and they could eat several at a time; as far as I can remember, life in the countryside was obviously better I have eaten a lot. Although I can’t eat meat a few times a year, every family can eat white flour steamed buns, but at my second grandma’s house, I only steam them a few times during the holidays; sometimes I don’t understand. I asked grandma, The grandma said that the second grandma saved it for the uncle to marry a wife, so I realized that it costs a lot of money to marry a wife;

In rural areas, it is common to get married early, and the uncle is tall, handsome, practical and capable. When he was in his early twenties, the whole family struggled to introduce a partner to the uncle; soon, the uncle was going to get married, and the new aunt was tall and strong, I whispered that my new aunt was not good-looking, but my grandma covered my mouth and praised that she knew how to live and work at first glance; now it seems that I was too young at that time, and I used my appearance to judge a woman. Is the person good or not? I gradually realized that the new aunt did not ask for a bride price, and that the second grandmother’s family had paid off the bills that the second grandmother’s family had left behind when they got married. The uncle and his wife slowly paid off; At that time, which little daughter-in-law got married and didn't argue about living separately, let alone paying off the debts; the uncle stopped going to school at a very young age, but let the uncle go to a technical secondary school, and then stayed in the provincial capital to study medicine; the little aunt I didn’t like to study when I was young, so I helped the family with work after elementary school, and then went to work in a factory to support the family. Later, I became a skilled worker and found an uncle who was also a skilled worker; because I went to school, I stayed in other places to work. I just went home once, and every time I go back to my hometown, there are good news about the second grandmother's house; this year's Spring Festival, the second grandmother embraced her great-grandson, and she was smiling from ear to ear on her 80th birthday, becoming a happy old lady;<strong> "First Marriage" Suffering will eventually pass, and we will meet happiness......