很多朋友对于《如果可以这样爱》白考儿：如果婚姻是这样的，我宁愿孤独终老和不太懂，今天就由小编仰面清风来为大家分享，希望可以帮助到大家，下面一起来看看吧！

由佟大为、刘诗诗、保剑锋、杨壹童等人主演的电视剧《如果可以这样爱》正在湖南卫视热播，因为有着流量人物佟大为和刘诗诗的存在，让这部剧一经播出就收视率爆表。电视剧一开始就以女主跳海的情景出现，奠定了一种悲剧的气氛。两个人被背叛，两个人自杀，如此的低沉，更加吸引了观众。可是，当小编看到白考儿和耿墨池的婚姻如此狼狈的时候，小编觉得，如果婚姻是这样的，我宁愿孤独终老。

一、家庭情况复杂的婚姻

白考儿和邱树杰的婚姻其实是不被家庭所祝福的，在邱树杰去世后，白考儿被婆婆骂是狐狸精、扫把星、克星，然后还让她放弃遗产继承，搬出住的房子，其实都能看出来，在这一段婚姻中，是不被男方家庭所祝福的，尽管已经结婚，男方家庭却并不接受她是自己家里人。根据后续剧情，我们还可以发现他还有一个时刻挂念却又没有血缘关系的哥哥。所以这种家庭情况太复杂，导致婚姻生活也复杂，让人不想接受。

二、对爱人隐瞒的婚姻

当白考儿的丈夫邱树杰去世后，白考儿在被逼着搬出房子急着找房产证的时候，才看到了邱树杰吃的药。她经过了解，才知道了他有十年之久的抑郁症，并且有过就诊记录。一开始结婚的时候，都对她有所隐瞒，隐瞒了自己抑郁症的情况，那么这种婚姻为什么需要继续呢？而且，据公司的人说，邱树杰常常欺骗白考儿自己在出差，其实是因为心情不好，抑郁在外面喝酒，有时候善意的谎言是对他人好，可是长期的刻意欺骗又是另外一回事儿了。被欺骗被隐瞒的婚姻更不能接受。

三、长期分居，背叛出轨的婚姻

虽然邱树杰和白考儿有过美好的回忆，可是最终却出了轨还自杀；耿墨池和叶莎也因为共同的梦想和爱好曾一起恩爱生活，可是因为长期分居，让感情淡了，没有丈夫的陪伴和关心，导致叶莎抑郁症严重，最终她背叛了婚姻，还选择了自杀。婚姻本来就是两个人一起过日子，可是当一个人不忠诚了你还会选择爱他吗？如果两人长期分居，那么婚姻的意义又何在呢？所以，如果是这种婚姻，我宁可不要。

我们都在期待美好的婚姻降临到自己的头上，可是不是所有的愿望都会成真。婚姻千万不要将就，如果是以上的婚姻类型，千万不要选择。小编希望你们都能够有幸福的婚姻生活。婚姻中有陪伴，有理解，有忠诚……

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【英文介绍/For English】：

The TV series "If You Can Love This Way" starring Tong Dawei, Liu Shishi, Bao Jianfeng, Yang Yitong, etc. is currently being broadcast on Hunan Satellite TV. Because of the presence of traffic figures Tong Dawei and Liu Shishi, the ratings of this drama exploded once it was broadcast. From the beginning of the TV series, the scene of the heroine jumping into the sea appeared, which established a tragic atmosphere. Two people were betrayed, two people committed suicide, so low, it attracted the audience even more. However, when the editor saw that the marriage between Bai Kaoer and Geng Mochi was so embarrassing, the editor felt that if the marriage was like this, I would rather die alone.

1. Marriage with complicated family situation

The marriage between Bai Kaoer and Qiu Shujie was actually not blessed by the family. After Qiu Shujie passed away, Bai Kaoer was scolded by her mother-in-law as a vixen, a broom star, and a nemesis, and then asked her to give up her inheritance and move out of the house she lived in. It can be seen that in this marriage, she is not blessed by the man's family. Although she is married, the man's family does not accept her as a member of his family. According to the follow-up plot, we can also find that he still has a brother who is always missed but has no blood relationship. So this kind of family situation is too complicated, which leads to complicated married life, which makes people not want to accept it.

2. Marriages that are hidden from lovers

After Bai Kaoer's husband Qiu Shujie passed away, Bai Kaoer saw the medicine Qiu Shujie was taking when he was forced to move out of the house and was in a hurry to find a real estate certificate. After getting to know him, she found out that he had been suffering from depression for ten years and had a record of seeing a doctor. When they first got married, they hid something from her and concealed their depression, so why does this kind of marriage need to continue? Moreover, according to people in the company, Qiu Shujie often deceives Bai Kaoer that he is on a business trip. In fact, it is because he is in a bad mood and depressed to drink outside. Sometimes white lies are good for others, but long-term deliberate deception is another time. something happened. A marriage that is deceived and concealed is even more unacceptable.

3. Long-term separation, betrayal and derailed marriage

Although Qiu Shujie and Bai Kaoer had good memories, they ended up derailed and committed suicide; Geng Mochi and Ye Sha also lived together lovingly because of their common dreams and hobbies, but because of their long-term separation, their relationship faded. The companionship and care caused Yesha to suffer from severe depression. In the end, she betrayed her marriage and chose to commit suicide. Marriage is about two people living together, but when a person is unfaithful, will you still choose to love him? What is the point of marriage if two people live apart for a long time? So, if it is this kind of marriage, I would rather not.

We are all looking forward to a good marriage coming to us, but not all wishes will come true. Don't settle for marriage. If it is the above type of marriage, don't choose it. I hope you all have a happy married life. There is companionship, understanding, and loyalty in marriage...

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