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​《都挺好》自从开播后，就获得了观众不少好评，这种现实主义家庭题材的影视作品，可谓是“老少皆宜”。这部剧直击最现实的家庭问题：重男轻女的观念，儿女之间关于养老的矛盾，父母教育子女的方式方法，婚后与老人一起生活如何相处……其实，还有一个隐藏的问题，那就是关于女性择偶。

婚姻对于任何人而言都是一辈子的大事，但我认为，这句话更适用于女性。选对了，自然是像小公举般幸福过一生，就像之前刷屏的买超和张嘉倪的爱情。但如果选错了人，可能后半生真的要在水深火热中度过了。苏家的儿媳就是活生生的例子。

先说大哥苏明哲。这个人的人品确实没有问题，而且他有才华有能力，稳重，还很孝顺，是女性理想的择偶目标。但是这并不意味着，选择了这样的男人就可以幸福，因为他中国式孝子的做法，也可以说是某一种程度的愚孝。

苏明哲因为将父亲接来美国的事情和妻子吴非争吵，这件事并不是吴非的错，根据他们当时的情况，苏明哲是个无业游民，家里的一切开支都靠吴非一个人承担。在美国那样一个高消费的国家，可想而知吴非的压力有多大，当家里再添一口人时，相当于又在她身上压了一座大山。当时苏明哲一心想着自己的父亲孤苦伶仃，在弟弟苏明成家生活得不快乐，便想着将父亲接到身边尽孝，当时的他并没有那样的能力，却偏要一意孤行。

女性择偶要选择孝顺的男人没有错，但是当他达到了一种愚孝的程度，就必须要慎重考虑， 这个男人是不是自己未来的依靠，在他的家人和自己之间，他是否会考虑到自己的感受和处境。如果他是一个只会为自己父母考虑的人那你就得慎重考虑了，如果父母说得对，作为晚辈我们自然要听，那如果说的不对，就完全没有这个必要。 不然婚后的生活，也是满地鸡毛吧。所以，女孩们在谈恋爱的过程中，一定要深入去了解对方，恋爱是冲动而美好的，但婚姻是充满未知的。

再说苏家的二哥苏明成。这是一个毋容置疑的妈宝男，啃老族，随着剧情的播出，我们也看到了苏明成和妻子朱丽婚后生活的诸多不如意。苏明成对朱丽确实很好，知道照顾她的情绪，甚至为媳妇出头还动手将自己的亲妹妹打成重伤，虽然他们二人的感情在婚后也出现过波澜，不过苏明成靠着独家的哄妻秘笈，将朱丽牢牢锁在身边。后来，当苏父拿出了账本，这一对小夫妻便开始了“还债”的生活，每天要精打细算的过日子，为此朱丽还努力加班，争取多拿些奖金，尽快将钱还给苏父。朱丽表示自己不想因为这件事在苏家的兄弟姐妹面前抬不起头。这就是嫁给一个啃老族、妈宝男的结果。

所以，当女性在选择伴侣的时候，必须谨慎，毕竟结婚不是两个人的事情，而是两个家庭的事情。一个人一定会受他所处的原生家庭环境的影响。女方在了解对方的同时，也要了解他的家庭，在谈恋爱的过程中，认真观察每一个细节，那些你认为微不足道的细节，很有可能将会是你婚后生活的炸弹。看过这部剧，你的择偶观是否发生了变化？

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【英文介绍/For English】：

"Everything is Good" has received a lot of praise from the audience since its broadcast. This kind of realistic family-themed film and television works can be described as "suitable for all ages". This drama directly deals with the most realistic family problems: patriarchal concept, conflicts between children about old-age care, the way parents educate their children, how to get along with the elderly after marriage... In fact, there is a hidden problem, That's about female mate selection.

Marriage is a lifelong event for anyone, but I think this sentence is more applicable to women. If you choose the right one, you will naturally live a happy life like a little princess, just like the love between Mai Chao and Zhang Jiani who swiped the screen before. But if you choose the wrong person, you may really have to spend the rest of your life in dire straits. The daughter-in-law of the Su family is a living example.

Let me talk about the eldest brother Su Mingzhe first. There is indeed no problem with this person's character, and he is talented, capable, stable, and very filial, making him an ideal mate for women. But this does not mean that choosing such a man can be happy, because his Chinese style of filial piety can also be said to be a certain degree of stupid filial piety.

Su Mingzhe quarreled with his wife Wu Fei because of bringing his father to the United States. This incident was not Wu Fei's fault. According to their situation at the time, Su Mingzhe was a jobless vagrant, and Wu Fei was responsible for all the family's expenses. In a high-consumption country like the United States, it is conceivable how much pressure Wu Fei is under. When there is another person in the family, it is equivalent to another mountain on her body. At that time, Su Mingzhe was thinking of his father being lonely and unhappy in his younger brother Su Mingcheng's family, so he thought of bringing his father to his side to fulfill his filial piety. At that time, he didn't have that ability, but he insisted on going his own way.

It is not wrong for a woman to choose a filial man when choosing a mate, but when he reaches a level of foolish filial piety, he must carefully consider whether this man is his future support, whether he will consider it between his family and himself. to your own feelings and situation. If he is a person who only thinks about his parents, then you have to think carefully. If what the parents say is right, as juniors, we will naturally listen to it. If what he says is wrong, there is no need for it at all. Otherwise, life after marriage would be full of feathers. Therefore, in the process of falling in love, girls must get to know each other deeply. Love is impulsive and beautiful, but marriage is full of unknowns.

Let's talk about Su Mingcheng, the second brother of the Su family. This is an undoubted Mabao boy, a gnawing old man. With the broadcast of the plot, we also saw many unsatisfactory lives of Su Mingcheng and his wife Zhu Li after their marriage. Su Mingcheng was really kind to Zhu Li, he knew how to take care of her emotions, and even beat his own sister to serious injury for his daughter-in-law. The secrets of coaxing a wife, locked Julie firmly by her side. Later, when Su's father took out the ledger, the young couple began a life of "paying debts" and living carefully every day. For this reason, Zhu Li worked hard to work overtime, trying to get more bonuses, and return the money to Su as soon as possible. father. Zhu Li said that she didn't want to lose her head in front of the brothers and sisters of the Su family because of this incident. This is the result of marrying a gnawing old man, Ma Baonan.

Therefore, when women choose a partner, they must be cautious. After all, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. A person is bound to be influenced by his native family environment. While understanding the other party, the woman also needs to understand his family. In the process of dating, carefully observe every detail. Those details that you think are insignificant may be the bomb of your married life. After watching this drama, has your view of choosing a spouse changed?

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